BWIM’s 2025 Book Picks
We’re thrilled to announce the first-ever BWIM’s Book Picks of the Year—a curated collection of reads from the BWIM staff that inspire, challenge, and nurture women in ministry, as well as equip and motivate all those who advocate for gender equality among Baptists. These books were chosen because they uplift voices that spark courage, deepen faith, and offer wisdom for all who care about cultivating a more expansive, flourishing Baptist future.
Explore the full list and discover your next transformative read.
Becoming the Pastor's Wife: How Marriage Replaced Ordination as a Woman's Path to Ministry
By Beth Allison Barr
Becoming the Pastor’s Wife is one of my books of the year because Beth Allison Barr speaks directly into the tension I feel in my own calling—the idea that, for women, becoming a pastor’s wife can feel like the only “acceptable” route into full-time ministry. Barr brilliantly exposes how cultural expectations have boxed women into narrow roles, and she invites us to imagine something far more faithful and freeing. Her words reminded me that my call to ministry is real, worthy, and not dependent on anyone else’s assumptions. (Lauren’s Pick)
For the Love of Women: Uprooting and Healing Misogyny in America
By Dorothy Littell Greco
While acknowledging progress for women over the last century, Dorothy Littell Greco describes how misogyny continues to permeate the air we breathe in the US and specifically in the US evangelical church. While the whole book has great value in building understanding of the ways misogyny’s pervasiveness may remain unseen, to me the gift of this book was the last two chapters which offered stories and thoughts on healing misogyny’s wounds and imagining a world without it. Anyone committed to BWIM’s mission will find this book informative and distressing, but also inspiring and motivating. (Meredith’s Pick)
Jesus Feminist: An Invitation to Revisit the Bible's View of Women
By Sarah Bessey
I chose Jesus Feminist as a BWIM book pick of the year because it captures so beautifully the heartbeat of my work with Baptist Women in Ministry. Sarah Bessey names both the hope and the hard truth of what it means for women to live fully into their God-given callings, and she does so with a spirit rooted in Jesus’ own radical welcome. Her vision of a Church where women are free, supported, and empowered mirrors the world BWIM is working to build every day. This book reminded me why this mission matters, and why I believe so deeply in it. (Lauren’s Pick)
The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love
By bell hooks
bell hooks’ The Will to Change is an invitation to imagine a world where men are liberated from the confines of patriarchal masculinity and empowered to love with courage, vulnerability, and justice. hooks’ insights remind us that dismantling patriarchy is not only about advocating for women—it is also about calling men into fuller, freer ways of being. hooks helps articulate why allyship matters, how systems of domination wound everyone, and why genuine transformation in Baptist life requires the participation of men who are willing to unlearn harmful patterns and embrace equity. (Nikki’s Pick)
Biased: Uncovering the Hidden Prejudice That Shapes What We See, Think, and Do
By Jennifer L. Eberhardt
Personal stories and detailed accounts of recent history are interwoven with neuroscience, social science, and investigative practices in this crucial read to understanding racial bias and learning about strategies for disrupting racial bias. As a white woman, this book was extremely helpful and challenging in understanding where bias may be present in my life and behaviors. As a woman in ministry, this book helped me think about the difference in the experiences of black and brown women in ministry as opposed to my own experience, and gave me tools to consider how I can be a better advocate for black and brown Baptist women in ministry. . (Meredith’s Pick)
Glass Walls: Shattering the Six Gender Bias Barriers Still Holding Women Back at Work
By Amy Diehl and Leanne M. Dzubinski
Glass Doors offers a compelling and well-researched look at the subtle, systemic barriers that keep women from fully accessing leadership—barriers that echo what many women in ministry encounter every day. Diehl and Dzubinski’s work names the invisible structures, cultural expectations, and organizational practices that limit women’s thriving, even in communities committed to justice. At BWIM, we work to dismantle these very obstacles by advocating for equity, cultivating leadership, and telling the truth about the challenges women face in Baptist life. Glass Doors not only validates the lived experiences of women in ministry but also equips us with language and insight to push for meaningful, lasting change. (Nikki’s Pick)
The Let Them Theory
By Mel Robbins
“The Let Them Theory invites people to create a world where they are uncontrolled by the decisions of others. This simple yet provocative approach to interpersonal relationships as presented by Robbins can be challenging for many women. At Baptist Women in Ministry, we have found that many women ministers find themselves making professional and personal decsisions based on the perceptions and actions of others. This book offers a strategy to “let them” and be liberated from the frivolity and fragility of other people’s opinions..” (Barbara’s Pick)
Womanish Theology: Discovering God Through the Lens of Black Girlhood
By Khristi Lauren Adams
Womanish Theology rose to the top for me this year because it offered a perspective on faith that both stretched me and grounded me in ways I didn’t expect. Khristi Lauren Adams centers the spiritual wisdom of Black girls — their experiences, their prayers, their questions, and their ways of reading Scripture — naming these insights as real, rich theology. Adams’s reframing of “womanish” as a playful, expansive approach to theology challenged the conventional, often white and male-dominated narratives I grew up with and invited me to see how much of God’s truth I miss when I only listen to the same voices. Her stories show how Black girls learn to interpret Scripture for themselves, find meaning in their own lived experiences, and hold onto faith through suffering, joy, community, and resilience. This book reminded me that theology is not limited to scholars or pulpits, but it grows out of real lives, real stories, and real girlhoods. (Lauren’s Pick)
Drop the Ball
By Tiffany Dufu
Tiffany Dufu’s Drop the Ball will resonate with anyone who has found themselves struggling to find a work-life balance. Dufu’s solution to juggling all the balls in our lives is to drop them. This reflective book on motherhood, leadership, and marriage captures the difficulty of wanting to do it all and invites us to simply stop. Baptist women in ministry often have multifaceted lives where ministerial work conflicts with social and personal commitments. This book is an invitation for women in leadership to embrace help and to allow the dropped balls in our lives to teach us more about ourselves than our many successes. (Barbara’s Pick)
This Here Flesh
By Cole Author Riley
This Here Flesh is an essential offering for anyone who appreciates the intersection of sociology, theology, and the contemplative life. Riley invites readers to an intergenerational reflection of her grandmother’s life, her father’s experiences, and her own personal realities. Together, they tell the story of a divine and complicated relationship with the flesh. Women often encounter theology that requires them to denigrate their relationship with their bodies to pursue ministry and a relationship with God. At BWIM, we encourage women to see their whole personhood as part of the greater narrative of God’s goodness and love in the world. (Barbara’s Pick)
The Measure
By Nikki Erlick
The sci-fi genre is not my normal read, but this book challenged me in thinking about my work as a social justice advocate. The premise of the book is that one morning everyone in the world wakes up to find a box on their doorstep. Inside the box is a string that reveals the length, or measure, of their life. The reason the book has stayed with me is that one of the existential questions it addressed was why we would continue to fight for something without knowing for sure that it makes a difference. Most memorable quote: “We don’t just march because we hope it will trigger change. We march to remind them of our numbers. To remind them that they can’t forget about us.” (Meredith’s Pick)
The Women
By Kristin Hannah
Kristin Hannah’s The Women centers the courage, resilience, and quiet revolutionary power of women whose stories have too often been overlooked. The novel’s portrayal of female nurses in the Vietnam War—women who served faithfully, carried moral weight, and confronted systems that minimized their leadership—mirrors the experiences of so many women in ministry who labor with devotion yet face resistance in spaces not built for their thriving. At BWIM, we seek to amplify these kinds of stories, honor the sacred callings of women, and advocate for a world where their gifts are fully affirmed. Hannah’s narrative reminds us why telling women’s stories is itself an act of justice. (Nikki’s Pick)











