Wherever we find ourselves on life’s journey, there are some powerful words I believe we all long to hear. Hearing them lately has reminded me of why. It first happened during a recent night out with other moms. I was introducing myself and sharing a little about our recent move and about how Kevin was still working in Atlanta. When I was finished, two of the women seated around me commiserated, sharing about their situations. One woman’s husband is in the military and he gets home every 6 months (talk about getting a little perspective!) and the other’s husband has to work very long hours. In the midst of listening to them share, I felt less alone. It was as if upon hearing my story, they were saying “yeah, me too.”
It happened again today when I ran into two ministers that I first met a couple of months ago. They asked me what I had been up to and I replied that I was still gathering, learning, and discerning for this new church start (they could probably hear the impatience in my tone!). They said, “us too.” Although they are not starting a new work, they shared how their ministry is always a work in progress. It made sense to me, and it also made me smile. Yeah, them too.
I guess the power in “me, too” is the subtle reminder that we are not alone. Somewhere deep down we tend to think we are the only ones experiencing heartache and impatience; however, “me too” reminds us that we are in the company of fellow strugglers who also feel, think and experience the ups and downs of the journey.