Women, Let’s Be Kind to Ourselves by Aurelia Pratt

Women, Let’s Be Kind to Ourselves by Aurelia Pratt

After I gave birth, I felt grief for the experience I hoped to have but didn’t. I struggled, feeling as though my fears of inadequacy were affirmed by my inability to have a vaginal birth. Every time I thought about it, I felt a deep sense of failure hit me like a...
Twenty-seven Words by Lauren Brewer Bass

Twenty-seven Words by Lauren Brewer Bass

I can tell you exactly how many words I can write in the Khmer script: twenty-seven. I’ve been studying the language spoken in Cambodia for just over five months now, and those twenty-seven written words—with curls to the left, squiggles on top, silent letters, and...
The Gift of Lament by Stacy Sergent

The Gift of Lament by Stacy Sergent

Not long ago, I was chaplain to the father of a dying child. As he attempted to express his anger over the unfairness of the situation, a well-meaning family member stopped him, placed a hand on his shoulder, and said, “Now, it won’t do any good to get angry. And you...
The Tyranny of the Dream by Carol McEntyre

The Tyranny of the Dream by Carol McEntyre

“We must be willing to get rid of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.” – Joseph Campbell This spring, my husband and I adopted an eighteen-month-old little girl. I haven’t had much sleep or time for reflection. However,...